A Letter To The Seniors
April 10, 2020
Dear Seniors,
Right now, times are tough. It feels as though the ground is falling out from beneath our feet. Our normalcy has been disrupted. Our days are all blurring together as one. Our world, as we know it, has been flipped upside down.
We are all feeling a little hopeless. We are all feeling a tiny bit unsettled. We are all searching for some sort of direction to help us find our way out of this mess. But unfortunately, no direction has been given.
That’s because there is no direction. I know, that’s both frustrating and frightening to hear, but it’s the truth. This is our reality. All we can do is wait – wait for this to be over; wait for all of us to come together again; wait for the better days that lie ahead.
We already have been waiting for a while, and it seems as though we will be waiting for a while more. But what about our senior year? The “best year” out of all four highschool years? The year we’ve been anticipating since our first day as freshmen. The year that we were told by many would be the “year you’ll never forget.”
Suddenly, this seems like a year we want to forget. Why us? Why don’t we get to enjoy the entirety that senior year has to offer like everyone else before us? Why is this happening?
I wish I had the answers to these questions. But like the rest of you, I don’t. It’s truthfully heartbreaking to acknowledge that we may not get to finish this school year how we had always imagined. We are allowed to be upset; this situation is one we never thought we’d be in the midst of. We have all worked extremely hard throughout our high school careers, and it’s safe to say that these last four years have shaped us into the individuals we are today.
But as I continued to spend days at home, I began to wonder, “what was the point?” I started to feel like everything I had accomplished was slowly starting to lose value. It felt like everything I had put my all into didn’t really mean much anymore. Everything honestly just seemed pointless. I’m sure many of you can relate. That’s because when times are uncertain, we start to lose sight of hope. And as of right now, we are most definitely in uncertain times.
But we can’t lose hope. One of my teachers shared a very inspirational quote with me this week:
“Hope sees the invisible, touches the intangible and reaches the impossible.” In a time of uncertainty, hope should be our best friend. Hope will help us through any challenge. Hope will help us reach the light at the end of the tunnel. Hope will allow us to achieve what may currently seem impossible.
I read this quote, and then I read it again, and then I read it a third time. This saying really touched me, so I’ve decided to share it in hopes that it will do the same for you. Sure, everything may seem like it is completely falling apart at this very moment, but if we have just a little bit of hope, we will get through this. Hope will give us the strength to push forward, to overcome this obstacle. Hope will most definitely guide us, but we must have it in order to rise up.
Nothing is pointless. Everything happens for a reason. Have a little hope, and everything will soon fall back into place. It may take some time before we return to what was once our normalcy; we must be patient. I promise, in time, hope will give us everything once again.
We have already come so far, it simply doesn’t make sense to give up now. We can do this. Better yet, we will do this. We just need to have some hope.
Love,
A Fellow Senior
*Special thanks to Mr. Vavalle for sharing the quote with me and inspiring me to write this piece.
Mrs. Mottl • May 28, 2020 at 6:55 pm
What a beautiful sentiment! There is always hope! I also enjoyed your podcast!! Class of 2020 rocks!
John Rossillo • Apr 22, 2020 at 2:55 pm
Thank You for such a meaningful article. Hope is a good guiding light. I want to live my life by this quote from Herm Edwards, “I trust my hopes, not my fears.” Your article reminded me how important that is.
Danielle Walsh • Apr 14, 2020 at 4:08 pm
This whole writing was adorable G. Just keeping hope everyday.
Megan Scharf • Apr 14, 2020 at 11:22 am
Beautiful said G! We all miss you all. Please keep hope alive ❤️
Sunkonmi Agunloye • Apr 13, 2020 at 2:36 pm
Love this article, gives me some peace of mind throughout all of this!
Michael Smith • Apr 13, 2020 at 12:01 pm
Thank you for this article. I know it will comfort many of your peers who are feeling the same feelings as you are.
This is a difficult time for so many. People who are losing loved ones find themselves unable to be wrapped in the comfort of family and friends coming together to grieve with them. Some have seen their income completely go away and are wondering where their next meal is coming from. Others are essential and forced to put their health and their family’s health on the line as they need to work, sometimes serving the general public, or in the case of those in healthcare professions, literally surrounded by this disease. Even the luckiest of us, those able to work from home, those who are fortunate enough to not be directly affected by the disease, still find themselves in isolation, during birthdays and holidays, and every day.
Those seniors in high school will have a bit of a gap that they will feel through the rest of their lives. No senior cut day, no senior prank, no senior prom, quite possibly no walking at graduation. As I see the trend on Facebook to post your senior photo, I know people mean to be supportive, but I have held back, fearing it might just be a reminder. I see people posting photos of themselves in their prom dresses that they won’t wear to prom this year, and I am reminded of how much prom is a part of the growing up experience, the endless fights over who is wearing what dress, the limo drama of who is in and who is not, who is laying out the money and who is dropping the ball. where will you go afterwards, and that night when kids literally get left at prom by their limo or bus group.
But there is a future ahead! You are the one who creates the future! If you don’t have a prom, perhaps a 1 year reunion prom that your class organizes. I am sure there are many of us who would be willing to help you guys make it happen. I know that I would be proud to go to your graduation walk if it is in June, July, August, December, next May, it doesn’t matter, if anything it will be even more memorable because you are doing it as an act of sheer will, you are making it happen!
Your teachers and your community is here to support you, now and always!
Mrs Biscardi • Apr 13, 2020 at 11:35 am
Beautifully written.
Colleen Van Tassel • Apr 13, 2020 at 10:35 am
What a beautiful piece, Gabby!! Thank you for sharing 🙂
Miss hearing your voice on the morning announcements & seeing you in the halls!
Hope to see you and all your fellow seniors at the end of the year.
Cheers to hope!
Mrs. Van Tassel
Ms.Diane Miller • Apr 13, 2020 at 10:35 am
What a beautiful piece Gianna!
For all of us who have just finished today’s 21 day FREE meditations entitled “Hope in Uncertain Times” found on the Oprah and Deepak app, the sentiment couldn’t be more timely and profound.
Linda Flannelly • Apr 13, 2020 at 10:24 am
Hi Gianna,
Thank you for these beautiful words, and Bravo to Mr. Vavalle!
Take care,
Ms. Flannelly
Kimberly Boccanfuso • Apr 10, 2020 at 10:27 pm
Thank you for demonstrating the courage to put what so many others are feeling into words of encouragement and hope. Stay well, bulldogs!